The… man… woman…. Woman … Woman…. Man… man….
When we connect with someone that magnetic pull draws a similar vibration together with a similar need that is being omitted, we have a similar vibration, Birds of a feather flock together
But when we are attracted to someone, its attraction, a creative pull, from the source of our inner most creative forces… sexual attraction, animal attraction, emotional attraction, mental attraction, spiritual attraction, soul attraction,
There are many factors that can attract us to a particular person, out of all the people in a room, we find ourselves pulled towards one person. For many different reasons our energy systems and where we are energetically…… is who we attract to us.
Take the Girl meets Boy … and we will use the analogy … he represents a house
He looks like he is the full deal. If he were a house, he would be a mansion. this beautiful strong house absolutely grand and charming… so much to him, many rooms to open into and discover and sure why would you not want to accept the invitation to visit or to move in for a while or possibly the very house of your dreams, a place that you give your heart to and stay and share your life there.
It’s a fairy tale romance, the prince, the mansion of your heart, you spend more and more time there and possibly spend years there, as the veils of the dream lift and you start to you notice that inside this mansion it’s not as bright or isn’t as new, as it looks from the outside
You realise this is part of a family dynasty, and was built through the generations, and each generation has left its hallmarks and energy signature throughout the house which influences the day to day operations and upkeep of this home of the Soul, this person whom you have shared your heart and soul with or possibly moved in with… moving IN your heart and soul and now you are part occupiers sharing the upkeep of this House. A house that uses up so much energy, this person can become hard work, to maintain the upkeep and needs of this house….
Supposing the emotional roof was part built by the great great grandfather and that part is straw and is letting in water, and each generation built on to this house, so many different materials, some strong and some old supports, too old for these times. No emotional supports, maybe very little self-awareness or emotional development, unable to care or support or a need for someone else to shelter them and rebuild their roof, maybe the roofer is the female, not a man’s job , family dynamics all showing and filtering into your relationship and effecting your life and other relationships.
The gospels, say, the sins of the father passed down from the father to the 3rd and the 4th generations… the ripple effect….
The foundations are not all balanced, some uneven, crumbling not supporting the walls. Old ridged values and beliefs. Each generation of builder gathered and added to this Mansion, but no one went back to update and upgrade what was already built , it was assumed it would endure lifetimes of living, and was big enough to store everything that was collected and carried and passed on to each new generation. A collection, the inheritance everything learned and passed on, gifts from all lifetimes … for the preservation of the species. The family dynasty … survival mechanisms, watching, on guard, building walls, protection
For example …. These gifts seem good, , from the Irish ancestors, gifts of survival methods, resilience, adaptation, perseverance, unity , solidarity, pride, many gifts passed down through the genes, as survivors but also from the famine and English oppression, genes carrying fear, submission, oppression , scarcity , rebellion, rule breaking, lack of trust in authority, vigilance and maybe hopelessness . Secrets held by families, betrayal, loyalty and contracts /deeds to keep the family alive.
Besides, the challenges of the times, religious, education all formed and shaped the Carers , Mothers, Fathers of the past who passed on all the teachings, lessons and fears and limitations from each lifetime, maybe tough love to grow a strong off spring to survive. Cruel to be Kind. Perhaps?
Pulling out of the gloom of negativity , which very much becomes one of the cogs in the wheel of our present day life,
Thank God for the liberated minds of today, we can challenge our past… J Murphy
When we take someone into our world as a partner, possibly for life, or some of life, there is an unconscious agreement to share your life and also your partner’s life. Which brings in each other’s families, lineage and past?
Unconsciously, you take on each other’s good experiences and also bad experiences and the traumas and dilemmas your partners go through, will play out in your life also, maybe supporting, carrying and caring … mi casa su casa meaning My house is your house.
Back to the House, the walls may have very little support, the rooms are filled with generations of baggage carried down and held there, and some rooms are boarded up, secrets not to be discussed or opened up with shutters on the windows so no light will get in to expose the contents.
Then the room of the Heart, for those who have seen beauty and the beast, a timeless light burning there in the centre … visualise the glass lantern alight containing your soul heart light on an ornate solid stand sketched with the history of the Souls love journeys.
This timeless light of the heart, this is your room together, which is fuelled and alight of spirit and soul. Which can burn brighter by love and is fed by love? when you get into this room there can be photos of past loves still hanging on the walls of the heart , memories of past loves still hanging like clothes in the wardrobes and tucked away safely into drawers and a big treasure chest filled with past experiences, not necessarily all good, in there is also hurt, sadness, loss, guilt , shame, abandonment ,betrayal , unfinished business, all still boxed up.
What a surprise to find that there is so much to tidy up before you can move fully into this life, you can’t move in properly, instead you have to wear the clothes of past relationships, if allowed, they will be altered so they fit you… all experiences you share together will be unconsciously and sometimes consciously compared to the Contents of the Treasure Chest of The Heart..
At this stage you could have shared a short time or a couple of years with this person, and the romantic falling in love, sexual energy, courting stage, this awesome love energy, some called love blind, starts to focus and you start to see more clearly.
Through disputes metaphorically, about not wanting to wear someone else s clothes, or fit into their world or how they view your world together, tainted by the experiences of their past relationships… But most of this is unknown, to either party.
Only when we go into our Hearts, and tidy up these rooms and clear out all the old built up clutter from past relationships, throw away all the broken dreams and close off all that unfinished emotional business , CLEAR out that Treasure box to hold only the Golden moments and treasures that make our hearts alight in Love and happiness – THEN you can attract the SAME into your world and share together with your Soul Mate creating your own mansion, clearing out the past clutter inherited from your ancestors and AWAKEN to creating your own life,
The Soul journey, is one of learning and each relationship brings great opportunities for Soul Growth, nothing is a Loss,,, everything given to us, good or bad is a starting point to understand ourselves and life a little better… to waken up from the automatic pilot of what we don’t question, what EXACTLY, have I inherited from my ancestors that is playing out in my everyday life as a Fear, a worry, a block to succeeding fully …. The Good stuff, that’s great… thank you but Limitations PASSED on, Once you are aware that maybe there are some closed doors in your mansion, then you start to become curious …. And life begins…………….
The start of your story… into your choices as this living spirit and soul embodied in this life time as …Your Name…… WHO ARE YOU?
Through a typical transpersonal session, we take a little look behind these doors and clear the rooms out …one by one…. And challenge what has been given to you unconsciously, knowledge is power. Once you awaken to these unconscious forces and habitual behaviours – you get to change how you react to life’s challenges and clear out your cells… cellular healing clears our emotional attachments to past relationships, so you can move on… freely ….to the Right Love…
When you enter into a new relationship emotionally and mentally healed from past hurts, with no baggage, that is who you meet, someone on the same vibration,
So if you want to change your relationship attraction… Start with yourself…
“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him … We need not wait to see what others do.” Gandhi
Liberate yourself from your past… And step into THE LIFE THAT WAS MEANT FOR YOU… Live this This Life to the full… Allow your heart to be alight with love xxx free your fears x